Masturbating. Is that sex or not? Because it's certainly one of my favourites. So many times I've had sex which I didn't enjoy that much but the one I have with my self ? Constant bliss. And since I've been using the Hitachi Magic Wand ooooh. Be ware I might faint. I mean when I feel the craving I go for the quick relief it's just that and nothing else. Having sex with another human being that's a very different thing there I'm after very different things the touch, the feeling, the closeness, the exchange of energy and then, if it's good I want to prolong it as much as possible. And so I don't know is wanking sex or not?