My sister is my best friend. She's eight years older than me, she took care of me when I was a child and we've always been very close. She's been married for seven years, got two kids, a wonderful husband and everything. Nice life, nice family. And now she fell in love with someone else. If I didn't know them I'd surely say she's got a bad marriage, she's not in love with her husband, there must be some serious problem between them but none of that is true on the contrary they've been so happy together. And yet she's met this other man and now she loves him as well. And she doesn't want to leave or lose her husband. And that makes me think there are so many people who would condemn her. But how many of these same people have bad unhappy relationships unable to give and receive love?