I believe women are much more after relationships than men. Men are after sex in the first instance whereas for women it's relationships which they seek. And I don't seem to be an exception a one night stand bears little attraction to me. Well, I mean, it's not that I wouldn't fantasise about it it's just that I don't think I would ever have the courage to do it to be seduced into an unexpected adventure with someone I had not known before. No that's not like me I'm not after adventures. What I praise and seek is stability, trust and commitment. For me intimacy can only develop over time just like real love.